Veteran Counseling: Providing Military Personnel Counseling

Counseling – Could it help veterans?

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John was my high school sweetheart. Although we had a similar family background, John’s desire to become a soldier initially made me want to stay away from him. However, John eventually got me to say yes when he took the traditional route and courted me at our countryside home often so that my mother knew his courteousness and pure intentions.

Becoming Young Adults

John and I had a blissful summer together after our high school graduation. Of course, he started training right after driving me to the university and helping me unpack at my new apartment. He even stayed for the night, and we spent most of it cuddling because only God knew when it could happen again.

Counseling should be a basic support for military personnel. Counseling alleviates and prevents symptoms of mental health issues that may develop while on deployment
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Doing The Long Distance Thing

John got deployed to the Middle East as soon as his training ended. It was a two-year contract, and I could be lying if I said I did not feel scared about his courage. After all, that’s where my father passed away. I prayed every day for John’s safety.

On his part, John tried to counter my worries by calling me as often as possible. I would hear his fellow soldiers joking about him being whipped, but he bantered with them well and practically did not mind being called as such.

Counting two years, and it was time for John to come home, I was so sad that I could not pick him up at the airport. While I could not wait to see John, I had been busting my ass in the last two years in university because I could not wait to become a counseling expert. Thus, you could imagine how shocked I was when I stepped out of the counseling classroom and saw him in the middle of the counseling hallway, holding an open jewelry box, smiling at me. He said, “My future counseling expert, will you be my wife?”

Counseling can do good to the general wellness of a person.
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Life After Marriage

As you could have guessed, John proposed to me that day. We could have gotten married at the courthouse, but we decided to do it once his second deployment ended so that we could go on a month-long honeymoon.

My courageous partner considered getting deployed locally so that he could take me with him, and we could build a life together in the country. However, I also understood John’s desire to go overseas while I pursue my counseling career. It was all courage in the face of danger, but he was only fulfilling his duty while I’m eager to push my counseling dream.

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Husband’s Counseling Session

Our baby was almost one year old when John could return home. I could not help but cry when tears flowed down my courageous man’s cheeks as he hugged us tightly and almost did not want to let go even during the two-hour drive home.

One can learn a lot of things about oneself when you do counseling. Counseling also helps military personnel overcome their PTSD and become better parents and spouses after deployment. This is why counseling is vital to service personnels.
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Once the baby was asleep, I finally understood why John acted that way. John felt sad that his friend would no longer be able to hug his family as he did.

Counseling. Counseling.

I would have been an awful counseling expert if I did not see the signs of PTSD in my husband early. While having breakfast, John told me that he considered getting counseling to overcome his issues. I agreed to conduct counseling for him.

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Counseling. Counseling. I could have offered counseling at home, but John wanted to do counseling at my counseling clinic. He booked a counseling appointment and everything, saying that counseling was also his chance to see me doing counseling. After some counseling sessions, John made a big decision to count on counseling and retire from the army.

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“I could always take pride in the counted years I spent in the military, but I don’t want you to see me in a casket anytime soon. I could use the business classes I took during my deployment anyway. I could open a restaurant next to your counseling clinic. What do you say, counselor?” John said, smiling courageously.

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